cheat*ng is often considered one of the worst things
that can happen in a relationship – and for good
reason. Infidelity, whether it’s physical (hooking up)
or emotional (having an intense emotional
connection with another person that doesn’t involve
hooking up), is the ultimate betrayal to many
people. That being said, though, there actually might
be some other bad things that can happen in a
relationship that are even worse. www.Olawaleyy.blogspot.com
brings to you in this piece 7 slow relationship killers
which can cause bitter resentment and heartbreak.
Thank You’
Not saying please and thank you is not good for a
health relationship. People need to feel appreciated.
If they feel appreciated, then their frame of mind is
better and everything in general is better. You might
be married or unmarried, but that doesn’t mean
you can’t be appreciative of what your significant
other does for you – and vice versa. You don’t need
to make a big show of it… simply saying “thank you”
when they do something is enough.
No Trust
Related to cheat*ng but not. Its really bad when
you can’t trust the other person. This is so true and
so important. Trust is one of the biggest parts of any
relationship. If you don’t trust bae or bae doesn’t
trust you, it’s never going to work long-term.
Always Being On Your Phone
You can’t just hang out with bae and both stare at
your phones the whole time. That’s weird and not
okay.
Acting Condescending
Towards Each Other
Being treated in a condescending way is horrible.
Remember that you have to respect your partner
and they have to respect you. Don’t constantly speak
down to each other. You’re teammates.
Name-Calling When Fighting
This is so important, and once you’ve done it, you’ve
set a deadly precedent you can’t really come back
from. Names calling shows a lack of respect. The
intent is solely to hurt your partner. It’s a verbal
expression of spite. Words hurt, and once
something really nasty has been said, you can’t take
it back. Don’t say it if it’s really bad.
Lack of Communication
95% of the problem in relationships could be fixed
if people just took the time to clearly convey how
they’re feeling. The root of basically every
relationship problem ever. If you can’t be open and
honest with your partner, then you can’t be
together.
Lying About Small Things
Even if it’s just a lot of small things it really does add
up, it leaves you thinking “What else would they lie
about?”. Yup, exactly. Again, if you can’t be open and
honest with each other, it will never work.
that can happen in a relationship – and for good
reason. Infidelity, whether it’s physical (hooking up)
or emotional (having an intense emotional
connection with another person that doesn’t involve
hooking up), is the ultimate betrayal to many
people. That being said, though, there actually might
be some other bad things that can happen in a
relationship that are even worse. www.Olawaleyy.blogspot.com
brings to you in this piece 7 slow relationship killers
which can cause bitter resentment and heartbreak.
Thank You’
Not saying please and thank you is not good for a
health relationship. People need to feel appreciated.
If they feel appreciated, then their frame of mind is
better and everything in general is better. You might
be married or unmarried, but that doesn’t mean
you can’t be appreciative of what your significant
other does for you – and vice versa. You don’t need
to make a big show of it… simply saying “thank you”
when they do something is enough.
No Trust
Related to cheat*ng but not. Its really bad when
you can’t trust the other person. This is so true and
so important. Trust is one of the biggest parts of any
relationship. If you don’t trust bae or bae doesn’t
trust you, it’s never going to work long-term.
Always Being On Your Phone
You can’t just hang out with bae and both stare at
your phones the whole time. That’s weird and not
okay.
Acting Condescending
Towards Each Other
Being treated in a condescending way is horrible.
Remember that you have to respect your partner
and they have to respect you. Don’t constantly speak
down to each other. You’re teammates.
Name-Calling When Fighting
This is so important, and once you’ve done it, you’ve
set a deadly precedent you can’t really come back
from. Names calling shows a lack of respect. The
intent is solely to hurt your partner. It’s a verbal
expression of spite. Words hurt, and once
something really nasty has been said, you can’t take
it back. Don’t say it if it’s really bad.
Lack of Communication
95% of the problem in relationships could be fixed
if people just took the time to clearly convey how
they’re feeling. The root of basically every
relationship problem ever. If you can’t be open and
honest with your partner, then you can’t be
together.
Lying About Small Things
Even if it’s just a lot of small things it really does add
up, it leaves you thinking “What else would they lie
about?”. Yup, exactly. Again, if you can’t be open and
honest with each other, it will never work.